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Once in a blue moon a childless woman will admit to feeling absolutely fine about not having children — and her words will unleash a volley of disapproval. Come dimagrire a 50 anni all, there are so few women who are willing to speak positively about not having children.
Contrary to the received wisdom on the matter, that childless women live a life of bitter regret, all the women of plus I know who do not have children have no regrets at all. As childless women, we are in the minority — but it is a growing minority. Today one in five women in Britain will never have children or, as one tabloid newspaper put it, barren britain: 19 per cent of women are childless at menopause.
Childlessness is on the rise — yet society is no closer to embracing it. Our perception of women without children is archaic, a dusty relic still wreathed in drama and despair. Even today single or childless women are routinely portrayed as sad and desperate curios.
In film and television it is generally implied that they must be neurotic and hapless Bridget Jonesmournful and lonely Jennifer Aniston or cold and career-focused Lucy Worsley.
Nor am I bleak, broken, empty — or any of the attributes so often ascribed to the childless. But the brainwashing is relentless, and the worst part is that we women buy into it.
Sometimes I have to forcibly close my ears to the regretful outpourings of other childless women — it would be so easy to catch their despair. There are, of course, many reasons a woman might find herself childless.
... ma non troppo. E non sempre...
My situation is a mixture of all these things, but mostly born of ambivalence. I never thought very much about motherhood when I was younger, except vaguely to assume I would probably experience it and that if I found myself pregnant by accident I would go through with it.
But the missed periods turned out to be an aberration.
Элвин никогда до этого не входил в Зал Совета. Это не запрещалось - в Диаспаре вообще было мало запретов, - но подобно другим жителям города он испытывал почти религиозное благоговение перед этим местом.
Like many young women, I pursued strange eating habits, and lived mainly on Müllerlight yogurts. It was probably this that caused my periods to stop for months at a time. As I grew older, children began to feel more and more like something that happened to other people.
At 28, I divorced and after that they became even less of a priority. The years ticked by, and little changed.
My ambivalence remained the same. Most of the time my childless status barely registers. Because many of my friends and colleagues are childless, I feel quite normal, even though I am in the minority.
The questions were fun, innocuous — but then the instructor asked who had children, and everyone stepped forward but me. The enquiries I receive are always polite, and to me seem more like curiosity than criticism.
We live in a child-centric society, one filled with Mumsnet and mumpreneurs, where motherhood has become shorthand for fulfilment. Even the redoubtably cheery Ann Widdecombe confessed recently that her greatest regret was not having children. Perhaps my life would have been immeasurably enriched by a family. Then again, perhaps not. I think that I probably would have been a hopelessly distracted mother. As it is, I have filled my life with other things — friends, career.
Even now, children are largely absent from my life. Many childless women wax lyrical about nephews, nieces and godchildren and how much money and time they lavish upon them.
I spend hours preparing dishes for them — from organic salmon lucy moon perdita di peso freshly cooked vegetables — while my boyfriend must make do with a tin of something or other.
In a way, I can sympathise with mothers who put their offspring before their partners. Besides, sometimes I wonder how honest we are about motherhood. The internet is awash with angry and disappointed women. No one tells you how awful it is to be a mother; I fantasise about running away from it all.
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Closer to home, a friend of mine emails me despairingly about the stress of dealing with her bullying teenage son and his endless demands for money. Slimdoo anneaux last year, overcome by a wave of fiftysomething nostalgia, I began looking up old college friends. All of them have had children. Will I long for a larger family?
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It was lucy moon perdita di peso fabulous occasion and he spent the day surrounded by scores of loving family members. But afterwards my friend and I ruminated that it was unlikely there would be such a huge turnout at our own respective 90ths.
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Anyway, having children is no guarantee they will visit you — according to a survey by Age UK, only one in five overs see their children at least once a fortnight. The book was a revelation — a perfect antidote to any creeping regrets.
The women in it were portrayed not as figures of pity, but as heroines to be admired. They refused to be marginalised, and without husbands or children they were forced — or perhaps free — to pursue careers, forge strong friendships and find professional and personal fulfilment.
I would never be arrogant or smug enough to assert that being child-free is better or more laudable than having children. Too often women are pitted against each other for making different choices.
Его собственные интересы и некоторая, совершенно искренняя симпатия к Олвину были достаточным мотивом для всего, что он сделал. Да, он поощрял и поддерживал Олвина, но ему и в голову не приходило, что может произойти что-то похожее на то, что сейчас произошло.
Anyway, circumstances are no guarantee of happiness. No one has everything in life and contentment is about making peace with the choices we have made.
Si definisce tunnel letterario quello in cui la solita donna precipita consapevolmente e dove si sento benone leggendo libri che la coinvolgono.